Look Up - Trust #2

Trust is a sacred thing, and once lost is very hard to find again. Feeling second best is never a good feeling, especially when you know you were not someone's first choice, and you get that message repeated throughout your relationship. Life is too short to be second choice in anyone's book. Find where you are truly first choice, and live there. It's that Sheryl Crow song again about looking up and looking down. No one should look down on you, and you should look down on no one else in your life, especially if they are supposed to be your life partner.

Look Up - Trust

Okay, so I didn't blog yesterday. Life struck and I didn't get that far. So, here's one entry for today, and I'll probably post another one this evening.

Trust, like a building, is built up brick by brick. Things happen to destroy that trust - small things that may take out a window or a door, and large things that may demolish an entire floor. After repeatedly blows, trust is destroyed.

You can rebuild trust, just as you can rebuild a building, but there will always be something missing, something just not right anymore. And then you have to decide if you can live with missing that something, or if it's time to move one.