Sunday, July 15, 2012

Life and Letting Go

Those who know me know that this has been a very yin/yang year for me. New job, divorce, new digs, youngest child moving out - just a lot of life stuff in a short amount of time.

So this is for those who have the eyes to read, the ears to hear and the sense to understand...

Dealing with a relationship with incurable issues moving toward inevitable demise is much like dealing with a loved one with a terminal disease. Much of the grieving and letting go is done prior to the actual end of life. What remains to be dealt with are the final ripples of goodbye. When you actually leave the shore after the waters have calmed is up to you; and how long others expect you to stay there is up to them.

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